FAQs

What should I expect?

This is a private celebration among friends who wish to explore their more erotic selves during a dinner-centric event. The intention of the soiree is to enjoy each other’s company in a titillating environment where we can drop into our sensuality and either learn or be reminded that the state of being sexy does not always involve sex.

While the general attitude is one that encourages desire, it does not encourage a “play party.” The atmosphere of this event is designed to celebrate the beauty of erotic expression without the expectation of physical intimacy.

Our expectations of guests are that they bring smiles, warm spirits, respect, and kindness to others.

Who is this party for?

All orientations and relationship structures are welcome. Bring your lover(s), your friend(s), your neighbor(s) - whatever suits you. As long as guests are open minded, able to participate in and enjoy conversation with others, take pride in their presentation and wish to have a good time making meaningful connections, you are welcome to apply.

Where is the dinner held?

We join together at private residences in Southern California, with the exact location determined upon a number of factors. To date, dinners have been held in Los Angeles and Orange County. When you are accepted to join us for a dinner, you will be notified of the neighborhood so that you can plan your travel accordingly. The specific address and additional details will be provided 24 hours before the dinner.

What kind of entertainment is there?

Our current roster of entertainers includes burlesque dancers, sexy musicians of various genres and instruments, fire players, glass walkers, Shibari rope artists, tantric artists, nude art models and painters, role players, professional Dommes/subs and boudoir photographers. Each dinner features unique performances, demonstrations and opportunities to interact with the talent and other attendees. Keep in mind that this event is made for connection, so we do encourage all to participate openly in activities and in conversation, some of which will be guided by a host during ice-breakers and amusements.

How large is the event?

Our dinners are held in the dining areas of private residences with a group of carefully selected friends. While the exact number of attendees will vary at each event, the number of those invited will ensure that we remain among friends, not strangers.

What cuisine and beverage should be expected?

We will be enjoying sumptuous meals without the discomfort of overindulgence or the possibility of offending our sexy guest with unsexy smells. Most dinners will be three (smallish) courses, but please ask the organizer about the exact amount expected for your particular event, as this could vary. Our friends have a variety of dietary restrictions. Please inform your organizer about the needs and restrictions of you and your guest(s) as early as possible so that the chef(s) are able to make accommodations.

Beverages will include a glass of bubbles distributed upon arrival and wine over dinner, the selection of which which we confidently leave in the hands of our experts. Some wine based cocktails will also be available, however, to ensure that all attendees remain their most responsible, delightful selves, no hard liquor will be served.

The entry fee covers food and beverages for the evening, however, if guest prefer to bring their own bottle(s), they are welcome to do so. These will be stored in a reserved location and served when requested.

What is the male to female ratio?

We intend for the ratio to be as close to 50/50 as possible. We strongly encourage everyone to bring a female companion (or more) for the evening to ensure that the ratio never becomes male dominated.

What is the dress code?

Your evening cocktail attire should help you feel your best and to display you at your highest level of tasteful, sexy confidence. Your event invitation will reveal if there are any themes for the evening, which you may take wardrobe inspiration from.

What is the cost of attendance?

Each event price will be determined by the overall cost of the specific event individuals attend. Tiers of attendance will be offered to ensure an optimal selection of guests.

Is there tipping etiquette?

Tipping changes the environment. Our attendance pricing is set so that servers and entertainers are well compensated. That being said, if you feel deeply inclined, you may tip a server or entertainer discreetly.

How late does the event last?

Each party will have a different location host, and each host will have their own house rules. While overnight opportunity may be available at some events, other hosts may need to set a hard end time. If an event is held outside your local area and can not accommodate a stay, you may be offered suggestions for hotels and alternative arrangements in the area. All guests are free to leave when they need to.

Is photography allowed?

If you wish to wear a decorative mask while socializing before dinner, when individuals will be allowed to take pictures and videos, you are welcome to. We love a mysterious charmer.

As attendees sit for dinner, all phones will be checked and stored with coats and personal items at the door. At this point, no videos or film will be taken by anyone, including the organizer and host. Phones will be returned once attendees have committed to departure.

For those joining us just for entertainment after dinner, phones will be checked immediately at the door.

Can I get to know the other attendees before I go?

Once confirmed to attend, your organizer will offer you the option to join a private chat with other attendees of your specific event, the details of which will be revealed to those who are confirmed.

When is the next dinner?

Our next dinner is scheduled for Saturday, February 15th or 22nd, 2024 in a charming, waterside neighborhood of Los Angeles.

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